After witnessing Sharon Mitchell's outstanding pussy eating skills in Dr. Blacklove and many many other films, it was decided that this blog needed awards to honor those with outstanding skills and appeal. Sharon Mitchell knows just how to use her lips and tongue, where and for how long. Her pussy eating magic can be witnessed from any position she's in. That's impressive! … [Read more...]
Reach Out and Touch
June 11, 2009 By
We’ve all heard the saying “silence speaks a thousand words.” This is because communication is 20 percent verbal and 80 percent non-verbal. Non-verbal cues give people an idea of what you really mean or how you really feel. Telling your partner you love them, but with a snarky tone of voice, lets them know you are irritated or angry with them. As time goes on in relationships, it is easy to get caught up in busy schedules and diaper changes and forget about each other. Adding some spark … [Read more...]
Are You Ready For Love?
June 7, 2009 By
Relationships can be tough. They bring two individuals, and different, people together and force them to get along, without losing their individuality. Having strong mental health can prepare you for such a relationship. Having a high self-esteem will keep you from falling prey to co-dependency. Mental health does not only mean free from mental illness, it is your overall psychological well being. Some characteristics of good mental health are: feeling content; a passion for life, laughter and … [Read more...]
Reader Thoughts from Zimbabwe
November 16, 2008 By
Thank you for the wonderful advice you are giving in "Ask Tressa" column. You are a true chipangamazano, a real and good adviser. I've learned lots from all the letters submitted and the answers you gave. Let me just add a few comments though on one or two issues. First I echo the writer who moaned the lack of quality adult films. I get really put off by the films available where there's no plot or story line but just pounding of flesh. There's no finesse in the lovemaking. Then there's the … [Read more...]
The Elusive Orgasm
November 16, 2008 By
Q: HI Tressa, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. i lost my virginity at age 23 and i still have not yet had an orgasm. I don't know what it is. I'm convinced it's me and somethings wrong with my body, i mean i can enjoy sex even tho it hurts every time in the first 3 minutes but after that its fine but i can never reach an orgasm is there something i can take like a gel or pill to make my sexual desires sky rocket?? … [Read more...]
A Divided Soul…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: This is not easy for me...i am having some feelings that i am not quite sure i understand. About two (2) years ago i meet a sistah that turned me on in a way that no one ever has. i guess i must preface this by saying that i am a married 24 year old woman, and i have never been w/ a sistah before. However, for some reason i have not been able to get this woman out of my mind. We never went "there" she's a really good friend to me. But, every time i see her i get goose bumps and my body starts … [Read more...]
Give It To Me Straight…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: I've been meeting men who are very nice, easy on the eyes, and sexy as hell. I establish friendships with these men. My problem starts when they want to take the friendship to a sexual level. I express that I don't have sex with a man who isn't doing anything for me, and they become very upset. Now I'm a gold digger, and a few other choice words. Give it to me straight, am I tripping, or they just don't have a clue. ~CH~ … [Read more...]
Threesome…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: Hi I would like to ask you, how can I get my wife to partake in a threesome. she mentioned it about three years ago but haven't brought it up since, now I am ready, how do I bring it back up? ~Dre~ … [Read more...]
Sexually Frustrated…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: Ok, my boyfriend is 7 years older then me. and he has been sexualy active since he was very young (he's 26 now) and i just started getting sexually active. I want to have sex all the time. I love it. But him, he doesnt and it makes me feel like hes tired of having sex, like its boring to him or something. I am a beginner so i have no idea what to do to make him want to have sex more. I have an attitude all the time because i dont get any and i dont want to be forced to find pleasure in other ways … [Read more...]
