During the course of any relationship, we all encounter road blocks every once in awhile. We have a breakdown of communication or lack sexual desire. Once we settle down and get married and starting having children, our sex drive can start to diminish. Even if we don’t have kids and are in a long-term relationship, we get comfortable and other things start to come before ourselves and our partner. Before it can be stopped, the joy of sex is gone and both partners have no idea how to bring it back … [Read more...]
Reader Thoughts from Zimbabwe
November 16, 2008 By
Thank you for the wonderful advice you are giving in "Ask Tressa" column. You are a true chipangamazano, a real and good adviser. I've learned lots from all the letters submitted and the answers you gave. Let me just add a few comments though on one or two issues. First I echo the writer who moaned the lack of quality adult films. I get really put off by the films available where there's no plot or story line but just pounding of flesh. There's no finesse in the lovemaking. Then there's the … [Read more...]
Good Black Adult Films…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: I am a socially progressive young black woman. My partner and I want to watch good heterosexual porn together, but the only porn that features loving couples are white feature films. All the black porn seems to be perpetuating horrible stereotypes of black culture, and it disgusts me and my partner. Can someone please steer the two of us in the right direction, or are we just looking for something that doesn't exist? We simply want non-white porn that shows loving couples having sex. We both … [Read more...]
