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A Good Woman Is A Clean Woman – Genital Care for Women

SWK — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:00:00 +0000

Our genitals are an important area of the body. They are used for urination and sexual intercourse, but they can be prone to diseases and harmful bacteria if not properly taken care of. So, how do you take the best care of your genitals? Below are some tips and guidelines to follow for proper care and prevention of genital problems.

Genitalia in women include; the labia, vagina, and clitoris, the external areas of the sex organs. The vagina will often give off an odor and discharge as part of its daily routine. It is important for women to get to know their bodies, so they are able to catch problems early on. Since the dawn of time, women have been taught the vagina is dirty and told not to look or touch except to wipe. The truth is the vagina is a part of you and just as you would explore your mouth and teeth, you should also explore your vagina. Learning its normal smells and discharges will help you notice immediately when things are off.

Cleaning the vagina is important, but very simple. You never want to be too rough around the vagina as you could unknowingly cause small rips and tears which can lead to a bacterial infection. You can clean the vagina with a mild soap while in the shower; make sure to clean around the anal area as well. You don’t need to clean inside the vagina or anus; the body has its own internal cleaning system. Douche should never be done. The vagina is full of good and bad bacteria and while douching will get rid of the bad bacteria, it will also destroy the good, disease fighting bacteria.

Discharge is a normal occurrence; this is the vagina’s way of removing bacteria from the body. The discharge will change throughout the menstruation cycle, so it is a good idea to know what to expect. Thick, white discharge normally occurs at the beginning or end of your cycle. If the discharge is accompanied with itchy, it may indicate a yeast infection. If the discharge is clear and stretchy it simply means you are ovulating. Clear and watery discharge is normal at any point in your cycle. Brown discharge usually happens right after your period and is just old blood coming out. Yellow or green discharge is the bad kind, this indicates an infection. Also, if your discharge has a foul odor to it or you feel pain in the vagina, this also indicates infection.

If you have any sort of discharge or smell that is abnormal its best to consult your doctor. Females also need to be seen by their doctor once a year for a physical checkup. During this check up, the doctor will make sure all your internal and external organs are working properly. He or she will also feel your uterus to make sure it is healthy. You should get a pap smear each year; this is done by taking some cell samples from the cervix and then testing them for cancer or other diseases.

Alcohol and Sex – A Match Not Made In Heaven

SWK — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 20:33:41 +0000

Rumor has it that alcohol loosens people up and makes the sex great. The truth is, alcohol is a depressant and it slows downs every organ in the body. Not only are people more likely to engage in risky sex when intoxicated, but there is always the risk of passing out and not even remembering the incident. Of course, having a glass of wine with dinner each night probably isn’t going to affect your sex life too much, but downing the whole bottle will.

Everyone knows there are short and long term risks to drinking alcohol. As long as you know your limits and limit your intake to a few nights a week, you should be fine. The effect alcohol has on a person varies. There are also differences between men and women and their sexual effects. Men and women are made up different both physically and mentally. The two main factors when it comes to alcohol are how much a person drinks and their gender. Let’s take a look at the different effects based on gender.

Women’s number one problem after drinking is a lack of sexual arousal. They have no desire to engage in sexual intercourse. Those that do want to make love to their partner have problems getting aroused. Even having just one drink reduces the physical response and the ability to produce vaginal lubrication.

Women who do engage in sexual intercourse while intoxicated have problems reaching orgasm or have fewer orgasms than normal. Their overall sexual experiences tend to be less satisfying than when they are completely sober. Not all women will experience problems and many women claim to have amazing sexual experiences while under the influence. Strangely enough, many people think or believe their experiences are much better than they actually are. Alcohol can lead you to believe you are having great sex, when in reality you don’t even orgasm. You may also be less lubricated than normal, which can cause pain later. Alcohol can also numb the pain so that you don’t feel as much until the next day.

Men can normally drink more than women can before they feel intoxicated, but that doesn’t mean their sex drive is any better. Men also have a reduction in desire and sex drive after a few drinks. The drunker they get the harder it is for them to get and maintain an erection. If they do get an erection it will take longer than normal to ejaculate, if they can do it at all.

Some men may have a reduced sexual drive and others will feel more sexually aggressive. This can be dangerous if either party do not want to have sex. Alcohol drops down everyone’s inhibitions, so it can be harder to say no and harder to except ‘no’ as a true answer.

Alcohol does cause negative effects to your sex drive, whether you are male or female. The more you drink and the longer you drink, the more distinct the effects will be. Long term alcoholics have reported many problems with their sex lives and it doesn’t get better with continued use. If you are using alcohol to rev up your sex life, better think of something else because in the end neither of you will be able to perform properly.

Surreal Orgasm – Zoe Britton

SWK — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 23:35:09 +0000

Our very first Wonder Award goes to Zoe Britton for her incredibly intense orgasms. One of her most memorable orgasms can be witnessed in Lesbian Halfway House vol.1. Other outstanding orgasms by this delicious looking young lady can be found in Lesbian Adventures vol.1: Strap On Specialists and several other films I don’t feel like listing.

When Zoe has an orgasm it literally looks like it's being felt from head to toe. You also get a multi-dimensional experience by witnessing her body shake and quiver while she moans and expresses her exquisite pleasure. And she never seems to run away from her partner at any point during and after her orgasm which is a little bit of a plus for the experience and gives you the impression than she's not simply using the other person to masturbate.

Cheers Zoe Britton!

Reach Out and Touch

SWK — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:19:53 +0000

We’ve all heard the saying “silence speaks a thousand words.” This is because communication is 20 percent verbal and 80 percent non-verbal. Non-verbal cues give people an idea of what you really mean or how you really feel. Telling your partner you love them, but with a snarky tone of voice, lets them know you are irritated or angry with them.
As time goes on in relationships, it is easy to get caught up in busy schedules and diaper changes and forget about each other. Adding some spark back into the relationship doesn’t have to cost you anything. By simply adding more touch, you can regain closeness like before. Once you get past that honeymoon stage, the stage where you can’t get enough of each other and the bed practically breaks from overuse, creating daily intimacy turns from sexual to sensual.
Adding more touch to your relationship doesn’t mean you have to hang all over each other all the time. Touch can be a simple brush of the arm or hug in the hallway; it’s a way of letting your partner know you are still attracted them. Touch can make you feel connected when things start to get crazy. Try to add in extra touches a couple times every day to get that feeling of closeness back.
Not all touches have to be sensual, but touch is one of the most craved sensations and most people don’t feel they get touched enough. We are programmed from birth to crave touch and closeness with those around us. Newborn babies need to be touched, held, and loved otherwise they start to lose weight and are prone to illness. Touch is not something to be overlooked, but so often it is.
How do you add more touching into the relationship? Start by doing little things like a kiss on the cheek or lips when passing in the hallway or during household chores. While your partner is doing the dishes, come up behind them and kiss them on the cheek or give a quick squeeze. Make it a rule to kiss each other before you leave the house and kiss again on the return. When you pass your partner in the hall or living room, gently graze their arm as you pass. Graze their neck or shoulder as you get up to leave the room. Snuggle in front of the television at night, or lay your hand on your partner’s arm. The best time to touch is while on the couch, most people end their nights in front of the tv, take turns giving quick 10 minutes neck and back rubs. Hold hands out in public or when taking walks together, snuggle in bed for a few minutes before you fall asleep and after you wake up. There are so many ways to add touching into your daily lives. Touch can be sensual, but it doesn’t have to be.
Touch is good for putting you in a good mood and strengthens your immune system. The best thing about touch, the more you give the more you will receive. Touch is more than a sensation; it makes you feel good and brings an added closeness to the relationship. Touching can be a pat on the shoulder, a hug, or quick massage. Bringing more touches into the relationship can only make it stronger.

Are You Ready For Love?

SWK — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 22:07:37 +0000

Relationships can be tough. They bring two individuals, and different, people together and force them to get along, without losing their individuality. Having strong mental health can prepare you for such a relationship. Having a high self-esteem will keep you from falling prey to co-dependency.
Mental health does not only mean free from mental illness, it is your overall psychological well being. Some characteristics of good mental health are: feeling content; a passion for life, laughter and fun; resilience; being flexible and adaptable; finding balance; and self-confidence and high self-esteem. You must be happy and comfortable in your own skin before you can accept others or hope they will accept you. Contentment in your own skin, in your own life, will increase self-confidence and put a glow on your face. If you can be passionate about life, you can be passionate about other things and other people. Finding a good balance between work, play, dating, love, kids, family, all the things going on in your life can be a challenge, but it will help relieve stress in your life.
Good mental health is important because it is what will get you through the tough times. Life is never perfect and we are all faced with ups and downs. Resilience is what helps us bounce back from those tough times. You face adversity head on, deal with the problems and issues, maybe scream or cry a bit, but then you pick yourself back up and move on. Adversity sometimes leads to change and nobody really likes change. Flexibility and adaptability will get you through those times of change; sometimes it is better just to roll with it.
Everyone struggles with self-confidence and self-esteem, some more than others. Self-esteem is simply defined as how much you value yourself and how important you think you are. Self-confidence is how you live out your self-esteem. If you feel good about yourself and value yourself, you are going to go out and get the things you feel you deserve. If your self-esteem is low your self-confidence is low, you will hang back and let opportunities pass you by. Many times when we are in relationships we start to depend on our partner to build our self-esteem. The truth is that self-esteem, comes from “self” not from other people’s thoughts or opinions. Although we value what other people think, we must first be confident in ourselves and learn not to rely on our partner to give us confidence.
Relaying on our partner to give us self-esteem can quickly turn into a harmful co-dependent relationship. Co-dependency has many means, but when you rely on each other for happiness, fulfillment, and self-esteem you are in a co-dependent relationship. Co-dependency causes you to lose sight of yourself and become immersed in each other. You mental health depends on the other person leading to an unhealthy relationship. Many people enter into relationships feeling like their partner will save them from their low self-esteem and distain for life. In reality, each relationship is doing more and more damage and when the relationship ends, and it most likely will, they are left with lower confidence and broken self-esteem.
It is up to each individual to take charge of their lives. Develop good mental health and a strong self-esteem before you enter into a relationship. Relationships can be hard and you must be prepared mentally. Do not rely on other people to make you happy, instead be happy with yourself and confident that what you have is great. Relationships can add to your overall well-being and help boost your self-esteem, but never rely solely on another person to do those things. Finding your own mental health will make you a stronger, happier individual who lives every day to the fullest.

Movie Review: Girls in White 6

SWK — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 02:50:18 +0000

Story 1 – This made me laugh. A lot. And hard. Anyway. Very cute. Heather brings a lot of energy to the scene. The chick she was with was cute, lacking a bit on energy and I’ll go ahead and say it, wrong or not …. more times than not, I thought she was a post-op male-to-female transsexual. It doesn’t matter, she was still hot and I’m probably wrong. But this is my blog and I can talk crazy from time to time if I want to. Her boobs are fantastic too. I’m always surprised at how neglected boobs are in these so called “lesbian” adult films. I think someone would have had to tell me to let go of her boobs…. yep, they were that great. *Smile* There was also some pretty good talking between the two as well and some good sensual touching. *update* I did see Miss Great Boobs in another film and I didn’t think she was a transsexual in that one. :)

Story 2 – Also very cute. This one was with Heather and Elexis Monroe. It was kind of interesting to see these two together. Elexis also looked very innocent in this one. I saw another one where she was acting innocent on purpose and she does it very well. It suits her more than the dominant roles she’s played IMO. She should also change her name to “GrindMaster E”. *Smile*

Story 3 – Well on one hand it was cool seeing two mature women having sex (I’d have to say these ladies were over 50). On the other hand, its not that cool seeing mature women with fake boobs, shaved crotches and banged out assholes. I went all out on that comment but still. It’s true.

Story 4 – This story was creepy. It kinda felt like a creepier version of that child molester episode from “d’ffrent Strokes”. That’s all I can say.

About SWK

SWK — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 11:31:20 +0000

Strawberry Wonder Kiss is a female-owned-and-operated company specializing in adult products, adult films, sexual exploration and sex education.

SWK Films
Strawberry Wonder Kiss Films produces instructional videos, adult fantasy stories, and documentary style videos where groups talk about sex and sexuality. We provide a comfortable, safe, environment for our talent and our projects are a lot of fun! * Note, all of our films feature “natural” women.