Friends and Lovers – A Great Relationship Has It All

Not everyone falls in love with their best friend, but it is possible for the person they fall in love with to become their best friend. As children, we play with various children in the neighborhood some of the same sex, some of the opposite. Somewhere along the way, we end up segregated with all the boys together and all the girls together.  Being friends with the opposite sex is misinterpreted as a dating relationship, so we stick with our own sex. The biggest problem with this, we never learn … [Read more...]

Give It To Me Straight…

Q: I've been meeting men who are very nice, easy on the eyes, and sexy as hell. I establish friendships with these men. My problem starts when they want to take the friendship to a sexual level. I express that I don't have sex with a man who isn't doing anything for me, and they become very upset. Now I'm a gold digger, and a few other choice words. Give it to me straight, am I tripping, or they just don't have a clue. ~CH~ … [Read more...]