Friends and Lovers – A Great Relationship Has It All

Not everyone falls in love with their best friend, but it is possible for the person they fall in love with to become their best friend. As children, we play with various children in the neighborhood some of the same sex, some of the opposite. Somewhere along the way, we end up segregated with all the boys together and all the girls together.  Being friends with the opposite sex is misinterpreted as a dating relationship, so we stick with our own sex. The biggest problem with this, we never learn … [Read more...]

Dream Sex – Benefits of Sex Coaching

During the course of any relationship, we all encounter road blocks every once in awhile. We have a breakdown of communication or lack sexual desire. Once we settle down and get married and starting having children, our sex drive can start to diminish. Even if we don’t have kids and are in a long-term relationship, we get comfortable and other things start to come before ourselves and our partner. Before it can be stopped, the joy of sex is gone and both partners have no idea how to bring it back … [Read more...]

Alcohol and Sex – A Match Not Made In Heaven

Rumor has it that alcohol loosens people up and makes the sex great. The truth is, alcohol is a depressant and it slows downs every organ in the body. Not only are people more likely to engage in risky sex when intoxicated, but there is always the risk of passing out and not even remembering the incident. Of course, having a glass of wine with dinner each night probably isn’t going to affect your sex life too much, but downing the whole bottle will. Everyone knows there are short and long term … [Read more...]

A Divided Soul…

Q: This is not easy for me...i am having some feelings that i am not quite sure i understand. About two (2) years ago i meet a sistah that turned me on in a way that no one ever has. i guess i must preface this by saying that i am a married 24 year old woman, and i have never been w/ a sistah before. However, for some reason i have not been able to get this woman out of my mind. We never went "there" she's a really good friend to me. But, every time i see her i get goose bumps and my body starts … [Read more...]