Things are getting a little crazy around here (in the best way). Over a short period of time, Strawberry Wonder Kiss has grown and is finally developing into what I imagined it to be when I first started in the adult industry back in 2002 (under a different name). "I" has grown into "we" and I anticipate very soon we will have an amazing group of people all collectively contributing to the goals and success of Strawberry Wonder Kiss. One of the great things about this path we are on is the amount … [Read more...]
Reach Out and Touch
June 11, 2009 By
We’ve all heard the saying “silence speaks a thousand words.” This is because communication is 20 percent verbal and 80 percent non-verbal. Non-verbal cues give people an idea of what you really mean or how you really feel. Telling your partner you love them, but with a snarky tone of voice, lets them know you are irritated or angry with them. As time goes on in relationships, it is easy to get caught up in busy schedules and diaper changes and forget about each other. Adding some spark … [Read more...]
Are You Ready For Love?
June 7, 2009 By
Relationships can be tough. They bring two individuals, and different, people together and force them to get along, without losing their individuality. Having strong mental health can prepare you for such a relationship. Having a high self-esteem will keep you from falling prey to co-dependency. Mental health does not only mean free from mental illness, it is your overall psychological well being. Some characteristics of good mental health are: feeling content; a passion for life, laughter and … [Read more...]
Movie Review: Women Seeking Women 47
January 17, 2009 By
What the fuck? I'll say it again. What the fuck? Who came up with this shit? Ok so the first "story" was about this chick who was in near agony most of the time because her tits were too big (I don't think so!) and some lady (one can assume is her mom) got some cream from the doctor that is supposed to help and hopefully eliminate the need for surgery. What the fuck? Is it titty shrinking cream? Whatever, the point here is this is a PORNO. No one wants to hear about someone suffering and trying to … [Read more...]
Reader Thoughts from Zimbabwe
November 16, 2008 By
Thank you for the wonderful advice you are giving in "Ask Tressa" column. You are a true chipangamazano, a real and good adviser. I've learned lots from all the letters submitted and the answers you gave. Let me just add a few comments though on one or two issues. First I echo the writer who moaned the lack of quality adult films. I get really put off by the films available where there's no plot or story line but just pounding of flesh. There's no finesse in the lovemaking. Then there's the … [Read more...]
The Elusive Orgasm
November 16, 2008 By
Q: HI Tressa, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. i lost my virginity at age 23 and i still have not yet had an orgasm. I don't know what it is. I'm convinced it's me and somethings wrong with my body, i mean i can enjoy sex even tho it hurts every time in the first 3 minutes but after that its fine but i can never reach an orgasm is there something i can take like a gel or pill to make my sexual desires sky rocket?? … [Read more...]
A Divided Soul…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: This is not easy for me...i am having some feelings that i am not quite sure i understand. About two (2) years ago i meet a sistah that turned me on in a way that no one ever has. i guess i must preface this by saying that i am a married 24 year old woman, and i have never been w/ a sistah before. However, for some reason i have not been able to get this woman out of my mind. We never went "there" she's a really good friend to me. But, every time i see her i get goose bumps and my body starts … [Read more...]
Give It To Me Straight…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: I've been meeting men who are very nice, easy on the eyes, and sexy as hell. I establish friendships with these men. My problem starts when they want to take the friendship to a sexual level. I express that I don't have sex with a man who isn't doing anything for me, and they become very upset. Now I'm a gold digger, and a few other choice words. Give it to me straight, am I tripping, or they just don't have a clue. ~CH~ … [Read more...]
Threesome…
November 16, 2008 By
Q: Hi I would like to ask you, how can I get my wife to partake in a threesome. she mentioned it about three years ago but haven't brought it up since, now I am ready, how do I bring it back up? ~Dre~ … [Read more...]
